Bad Therapy: Why the Kids Aren't Growing Up

Bad Therapy: Why the Kids Aren't Growing Up by Abigail Shrier

Therapy may. be making us much worse. Therapists often have good intentions. They are trying to help. However, they may help "uncover" problems that did not exist previously. (People have a tendency to remember the bad, and more discussions about it may amplify it.) Therapy also encourages a self-focus that can distract from the growth and better integration in society.  Therapists also have financial incentive to continue therapy. There is rarely an event that can be marked as a "cure", thus therapy can go on indefinitely. It can be even worse for children. They can easily be convinced of issues by the manner of questioning. A well-mannered child is a much easier client than a bi-polar adult, making them a much better client to hold on to.

What is the alternative to therapy? Removing phones from children may provide a greater increase in mental health than a visit to a therapist. Maybe we do just need to allow for more personal communication all around. It seems too often the suggestion is for "professional help", when what people really need is a friend.